Markie, as convinced as you are about the differences that exist in modern electronics, you should certainly take the Richard Clark challenge, and take home the $10,000 he offers to anyone whom can actually reliably hear the difference between any two given amps, within the confines of his rather generous rules. Thousands have tried, no one has yet taken the prize. The above video also mentions that as modern technology is now producing even inexpensive gear that measures with distortion, frequency response, and time based errors well below the threshold of audibility, they will sound the same.
http://tom-morrow-land.com/tests/ampchall/
Now I'm sure you have plenty of reasons why this challenge is not applicable, but eventually that stance becomes simply unsustainable. In fact, I really don't even know how to respond to someone whom will routinely argue against the virtue of an ABX test because it does not conform to their preconceived notions. I do hope many of the neophytes here take the time to educate themselves without being talked into taking that blind leap of faith into the world of high end mysticism, which offers nothing but an empty wallet.
To take the discussion back on track, features, durability, power output, a good room correction implementation, good bass management, and aesthetic appeal are probably more important considerations than "sound quality".
Jay